There is this girl who I see every day at the bus stop, and I have never dared to talk to her.
December 22, 2014
Trust me, she knows you exist, since she also sees YOU every day at that bus stop. You don't have to talk to her. You can just smile at her in a friendly fashion(meet her eyes for a second) and then look away. That is how you start.
At some point, she might say "hi". Good, then say "hi" back. Or you might feel inclined to say "hi" after that first smile. Just do what feels right, as long as you make that first smile. Always look at the eyes. This is really important, really important. As long as you refuse to meet her eyes, she will feel rejected.
December 23, 2014